There was a time in my life where I spent a lot of money on psychics. I wanted to know when things were going to happen for me. I wanted to know when I was going to meet my guy, when we were going to get married, how I was going to meet him...etc. I wanted them to give me relief from all the uncertainty that I had.

Uncertainty. That’s what we fear.

If we don’t know what’s ahead, we can’t plan for it. We can’t protect ourselves from getting hurt, from feeling lonely, from heartbreak.

But here’s the thing. The uncertainty can take on a life of its own and hold you back from the things you want to do, the love you want to give.

I stopped seeing psychics. I no longer wanted someone else to tell me what my future holds.

If you can relate to this, know that you don’t have to rely on fate or luck or timing to have the love you want in your life. You have A LOT more control over it than you think. More explanation in Mindset Makeover.

The question of the day: If you knew for certain that you were going to meet your man (100% certain), how would you approach dating differently? How would you feel?