Everyone has a love story and this is mine. When I was in my early 30s, I went through a life changing breakup. It was one I didn’t see coming and so when it hit me, it affected several areas of my life. Not only had I hit my ultimate low in my relationships but it quickly transitioned into, my career and my business as well. Not to mention that I also had my mounting debt to worry about as well. Aside from the actual breakup I also had to deal with the emotional roller coaster of a breakup. And when I was done with that, I had to start dating again.
Dating was a whole different experience. Scared that I’d be ‘too late’ to meet someone or that I’d fall behind my friends who were already married and pushing out babies, I plunged into the brand new world of dating apps and dating websites. I was scared that I’d be alone and so I went on a whole bunch of dates and grew tired of them really quickly.
When they didn’t work out or when I guy was hot and cold, I’d get anxious wondering if it was ever going to happen for me. As a result of my mindset and a lack of understanding of my own roadblocks, I was attracting all the wrong guys. Either I couldn’t find a good connection with someone or when I did things would be great for a few months until they decided they just wanted to have fun. I was over it. So jaded. Blamed it on all my exes.
I had no idea what I was doing wrong and blamed my circumstance on everyone, on dating apps, on men….everything else except for me...I then realised that I was the common denominator. And you know what, that aha moment changed everything. It was actually empowering to know that I’m in control of my love life. I’m in control of:
- The vibes I put out there
- The people I attract
- The people I choose to invite into my life
- And the people I choose to stay
I did the inner work and shifted my mindset, and got clarity on what I was doing wrong, to learn how to communicate my needs and to set up my mindset to attract the healthy love I knew I was meant for. I did all the right things and I completely changed the type of men I attracted.
Dating was easy.
Meeting new and great guys was now effortless.
I was no longer questioning if I’d meet someone. I just KNEW it was around the corner.
I no longer felt jealous when I saw other loved up couples.
I was getting asked out from the most random people at the most random places.
People were just attracted to my new vibe.
I loved the life I had set up for myself.
Not long after doing the inner work, I met Cristian. A year later he proposed. A year later we got married. 3.5 years later I still don’t regret the breakup that broke me. In fact, I thank my ex for it - always will. Sometimes things need to get really bad before they can get better.
Whatever it is you’re going through right now, there’s always a way to gain control of your love life. I know what it’s like to be anxious about not meeting my person or not meeting the right person. I know what it’s like to feel anxious when another casual fling didn’t turn into anything more, when a guy I really liked stopped calling. I know what it’s like to be frustrated with attracting men who are emotionally unavailable, to be jaded.
In my ‘Lucky in Love’ programme, we fast track your way to attracting the healthy love you’re after. It’s jam packed with every little thing I did to make dating so fun and easy:
First is understanding roadblocks and identifying relationship patterns. Because if you don’t know what you’re doing wrong you can’t fix it.
In the second part, we reframe your mindset and set yourself up to attract healthy love. Mindset is the secret sauce to attracting good relationships. It helps you tame your anxiety and deal with the ups and downs of dating. You’ll also learn how to pace yourself in a relationship so you’re not investing in a guy too early.
Third part, You’ll get crystal clear on the kind of guy you need to fulfil your emotional needs
Then we get into self care and manifestation. How to bring out the best version of yourself and attract your guy. Make it effortless for you to attract good men.
The next part I get into detail about how and where to meet men. Flirting, conversations started. The perfect dating profile for you and how to nail the first date. Everything is workshopped together so you don’t feel like you’re going at it solo.
In the last few modules we’ll deep dive into understanding relationships and men, especially what to do when he pulls away or doesn’t call when you want him to
A lot can change in 30 days. You’ll learn:
- how to make dating effortless
- how to pace relationships so they stop wasting time
- how to connect with yourself and with men, deep emotional connection not just the physical kind
It can totally happen for you.
My story isn’t unique. I now focus on helping other women, like you, find the healthy love they’re looking for.
I’ve worked with women who’ve found a the love of their life in as little as 5 weeks and some take 18 months. But they find them and that’s the goal!
Now I want to help you find the love of your life
Hope you’ll join me!
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