Good Bye Casual Dating!

Understand the EXACT things that make a guy commit

Stop wasting time with casual dating and flings that go nowhere. This course gives you the tools to attract and connect with men who are ready for more. Learn how to break your dating patterns, meet men who are actively looking to settle down and ask for the relationship you want without scaring him away.

A little while ago, I was always the woman who put 200% into a relationship, hoping that it would lead to someone long-term (maybe even marriage). But one relationship after another, I was always on the receiving end of the same speech:

"I'm not ready for such a big step"

"Now is not the time for us"

"I want to get married

"I'm just not sure it's with you".

Maybe you can relate...

It was until I learned how men think that I finally got off the miracle round of non-committal relationships. And I've put it all together to help you too.

Understand exactly what it takes for a guy to commit

What to expect:

Learn the principles that take you past dating probation so he sees you as a long term partner, not a short term fling. You deserve healthy and nurturing love. Stop settling for less. It only takes one date for your life to change...ONE date.

Some men will tell you they're not ready for a commitment but...

then a month later you find him loved up with his future wife. And you're left wondering why her and not me? If you feel like you're stuck on a hamster wheel going nowhere in your love life, I get it. I've been there too.

There was a time when I'd jump from one casual relationship to another hoping for it to last longer than 3 months. No matter who I dated, the relationship would always fizzle in the same (same, same but different) way:

  • He wasn't ready for a relationship
  • He couldn't give me what I needed
  • He just wanted to see where things went
  • He wanted to be 'friends'
  • He wanted to stay in the present.

All these 'relationships' left me in limbo, wondering what I was everyone around me just fell into these awesome relationships with ease.

It really left me wondering if there was something wrong with me.

And maybe you've been there too...

1. When you've been seeing a guy for awhile but no one has put a label on it (and you don't know where you stand)

2. When you've been on and off with a guy waiting for him to come around

3. When your guy is just giving you enough to stick around but can't say he wants something long term with you

4. When you've been in a long term relationship and want to get married/have kids/adopt some puppies but your guy isn't onboard.

5. When you really want to know where a relationship is headed but are too scared to ask in fear it'll chase him away

Most women I work with want a committed relationship but feel stuck because:

  • They keep falling into the same dating patterns i.e. they keep attracting the wrong men
  • They haven't learned to identify the men who are right for them
  • They are afraid to ask for it in fear they'll scare the guy away
  • They can't find the words to communicate what they want in a relationships.

It doesn't have to be that way. What if...

  • You never had to worry if he was ready for a commitment
  • You never had to drop hints that you want to take your relationship to the next level
  • You could ask for the security and commitment you wanted without chasing men away
  • You could attract men who were emotionally AVAILABLE
  • You stopped wasting time dating the wrong men?

When I stopped playing the guessing game, I met someone terrific. A year later we got engaged. The year after, we got married.

"Iona breaks down the ideas in ways that's really easy to understand. This course gave me the tools to understand what I've been doing wrong all those years!"

- Jane, 29


And because I really want to help you find the love you're after, I've included a few of my most effective materials:


  • My Ultimate Guide to Texting Men + 101 Conversation Starters (ebooks)
  • Secrets to charm any guy audio (just by being YOU)
  • The same online dating profile I used to attract some great men into my life)
  • Unlimited email or texts between you and I (30 days)
  • 50% off my signature Lucky in Love 30 day programme ($200 off)

Just added is my BRAND NEW BONUS: The Man Magnet Bundle

This is jam packed with actionable strategies that help you attract good men and take casual dating to a committed relationship. Here's what we cover:

  • How to attract good men - Man Magnet Strategy
  • Take a relationship from dating to committed - The Man-ual
  • And how to stay happily loved up attached and adored - Attached and adored

"I just had a sneak peek of this course, packed with lots of stuff I've been able to use in my own relationships. I'm so much more confident about expressing what I want. Also I've gained so much clarity about the men I kept attracting. Get this now before the price goes up."

- Niki, 36

Your Instructor

Iona at 30everafter
Iona at 30everafter

Hello! Iona here. I’m a relationship and dating coach for single women. I'm all for drama free and healthy relationships that promote self love, intimacy and passion. I believe everyone deserves the love they crave and my mission is to help you find it.

If there is one thing I know for sure is that we have the power to attract and keep the love we are after - one that is passionate, nurturing, secure, reciprocated, one that is in it for the long haul. I hope you'll join me on a new adventure to find your best relationship yet. Because the best is yet to come. I just know it!


Frequently Asked Questions

When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.